
Cycle of Desire: Understanding Your Body’s Rhythms with Mars as Your Guide
Desire is not constant—it's a beautiful, ever-shifting cycle that affects everyone, regardless of gender or relationship status. In this guide, we’ll explore the Cycle of Desire: Understanding Your Body’s Rhythms with Mars as Your Guide, providing you with practical insights and science-backed advice to nurture intimacy, self-awareness, and sexual wellness. With The Planet Mars, a Canadian-owned brand dedicated to women’s wellness, you can embrace your unique rhythms and take charge of your pleasure journey.
What Is the Cycle of Desire? (Direct Answer)
The Cycle of Desire is the natural pattern of rising and falling sexual interest influenced by hormones, stress, relationships, and self-care. Understanding your body’s rhythms can help you anticipate changes in libido, improve intimacy, and foster self-acceptance. Mars guides you to tune into these cycles for a more empowered and pleasurable life.
Understanding Sexual Rhythms and Hormonal Fluctuations
Our bodies are in a constant state of flux, and so is our sexual desire. For many, libido is closely linked to hormonal cycles—whether it’s the menstrual cycle, testosterone levels, or stress hormones. According to Dr. Lori Brotto, psychologist and UBC professor, “Desire ebbs and flows, and that’s perfectly normal.”1
Factors affecting desire include:
- Hormonal changes (e.g., menstrual cycle, menopause, testosterone)
- Emotional well-being and stress
- Physical health and sleep quality
- Relationship satisfaction
- Self-image and confidence
Recognizing these influences can reduce anxiety and normalize the ups and downs you experience.
Practical Ways to Embrace Your Cycle of Desire
Embracing your body’s rhythms means listening to your needs and communicating openly with partners. Whether you’re curious about self-discovery or reigniting intimacy, small changes can make a big difference. Try:
- Journaling your feelings and patterns over time
- Exploring new sensations with beginner vibrators or lubricants from The Planet Mars
- Scheduling regular check-ins with your partner
- Practicing mindfulness or yoga to reduce stress
Research from the Journal of Sex Research shows that self-awareness and open communication can improve sexual satisfaction by over 20%.2
Building Intimacy: Tools and Tips for Every Gender
Intimacy is a journey, not a destination. At The Planet Mars, we believe everyone deserves access to safe, pleasurable experiences—regardless of gender or orientation. If you’re navigating long-term relationships, our guide to reigniting intimacy offers actionable steps for couples.
Here’s a personal tip: As a woman in Ontario, I once felt disconnected from my own rhythms. By tracking my cycle and experimenting with couples toys from The Planet Mars, I learned that desire doesn’t have to look the same every day. Embracing these changes deepened my connection with myself—and my partner.
Remember, exploring your cycle of desire is about self-compassion, discovery, and pleasure—on your own terms.
Disclaimer: This content is for informational purposes only and does not substitute medical advice. Please consult a healthcare provider for personalized guidance.
Key Takeaways
- The Cycle of Desire is natural and varies for everyone
- Hormones, stress, and relationships influence your sexual rhythms
- Tracking your patterns and using tools like vibrators or lubricants can improve pleasure
- Open communication and self-awareness foster intimacy
- The Planet Mars supports all genders in their sexual wellness journey
Ready to explore your unique cycle of desire? Discover The Planet Mars’ curated products and empowering resources—your Canadian partner for women’s wellness and pleasure.

Key Takeaways
- The Cycle of Desire is a normal, ever-shifting process for all bodies - Hormones, stress, and relationships affect libido and intimacy - Journaling, new products, and open communication can nurture sexual wellness - The Planet Mars offers Canadian, women-focused support and productsReady to explore your unique cycle of desire? Discover The Planet Mars’ curated products and empowering resources—your Canadian partner for women’s wellness and pleasure.